10 Things Every Wife Should Know and Do

10 Things Every Wife Should Know and Do

I must first say that I am so blessed, actually beyond blessed to celebrate yet another year of marriage to the love of my life.  13 YEARS!!! WOW.  I literally have no words to describe the overwhelming joy that I have.  I am sure as young girls we all imagined our wedding day.  Looking like a princess walking down the aisle to marry our prince. But I didn’t really think much about what to expect after the wedding.  I mean sure, the house, the dog and kids but I didn’t put much thought or focus beyond that.  

But I’m older and married so reality has set in.  Things that I didn’t think about were suddenly apart of everyday life.  No more running to mommy's house and sleeping in my old room.  I am married; I am a wife.  Oh boy.  If only the honeymoon lasted a lifetime.  But the truth of the matter is, marriage is not easy.  I like to say it takes a lot of work but it's so worth it.  It’s probably one of the most difficult stages we encounter in life.  Why?  Well, if I had to pick a synonym for marriage, it would be the word selfless.  I really can write a book on the subject but for today we’ll focus on my top ten things every wife (regardless of how long you’ve been married) should know and live by.  These are some of the lessons I’ve learned over the years and while some are spiritual, there are some that are VERY practical; I want to be transparent and have balance in what I am sharing with you.

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    Tips For Wives: How To Strengthen Your Marriage (Part Three)

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    She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her. (Proverbs 31:12 AMP)


    If you really want to see your husband be the best man God has called him to be (a loving, caring, strong, supportive husband), encourage him. I’ve witnessed something, there is nothing worse than seeing two people who say they love each other, tearing each other down. It hurts my heart to hear the way some wives talk to their husband and then turn around and complain that their husband isn’t affectionate, never wants to be home, etc.

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    Tips For Wives: How To Strengthen Your Marriage (Part One)

    Tips For Wives: How To Strengthen Your Marriage (Part One)

    Tip One: Pray For Effective Communication

    There's just something about prayer! It's a way to communicate with God and make your request(s) known to Him. Prayer is so powerful in a marriage and it works. Through prayer, God can soften your husband's heart and God (through your prayers) can communicate to your husband in ways that you can't and bring peace within your marriage. I often get asked "what should I do to maintain a healthy relationship with my husband?" One of my top answers

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